Feel like you always do the same thing in the bedroom? here are some prompts for your next scene If you want more general ideas here’s some themes to play…
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I recently taught a class on what we’ve been calling somatic kink. Meaning a kink scene which is focused on the brain body connection and creating a relaxed state. The…
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I’ve adopted KEMsand wanted to share a little bit about how I’ve implemented it.As an ethical instructor: I model visibly excellent consent in my classes. I practice robust consent in…
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This is a hand out for Blaming_lilith‘s Rope handling with webs that we’ve presented together a number of times. Maintain constant tension on the rope. Always hold with at least…
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Step 1 Step 2 step 3 This simple but effective tie is great for snuggling!
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(guest article by RawKitty you can find the google doc here) In order to decrease errors during surgery, the operating room adopted a Safety Time Out based on the Pre…
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Most people feel really overwhelmed the first time they go to their first Dungeon party Guide to Event Types Rules that Apply to all kink events Some Tips: Event Types…
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A presentation on D/s dynamics whether it’s 24/7 or just tonight
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Community Etiquette A quick guide to BDSM etiquette -Ms. Manners would approve of. It can be overwhelming to be in a new social situation where the rules appear to completely…
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The above image was reviewed and created with a licensed physical therapist, to help identify places where nerves are close to the surface and rope might be placed. The most…
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